Can't Figure It Out

So I originally started blogging because I wanted to take control of our finances, but I just can't figure it out.  We are out of control.  We spend more than we earn.  I look over our budget and I get so frustrated!  I can only do so much about overspending in dining out and the entertainment categories.  I guess I have to figure out a way.  I have to start cooking more, but let me just say I am a terrible cook.  Maybe one day I'll figure it out?